Pastor Carlton Howell
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Yeah.
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And there, there’s the box that you find. It’s.
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Love. And then you’re like, Okay, now that, how do I get this out of everything else and into the forefront.
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So, knowing what I know about ***.
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And how he desires to have a relationship with us.
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I’ve learned that, even though I haven’t always wanted to be as open as I can be with.
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Always.
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I know that that’s what he desires from us.
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And that he’s listening to us.
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You know the word says.
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He knows this to the extent that he knows the.
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There we do it!
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You know he bottles our tears, and he knows the number of hairs on our head.
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To the, to to have that type of understanding of us.
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But.
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He truly has to have a desire of wanting to listen.
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Wanting to desire that relationship with us.
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So I’ve been learning more to.
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As I’m learning to better manage my time.
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Doing it, the way.
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That the time that I have for my wife is my wife.
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And through being able to listen to her.
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I’m able to express more of myself.
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Way down. So my window started, you know.
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Because I have a deeper understanding of who she is.
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Let people at the table.
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And that helps me from keeping that compartament.
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Compartmentalization.
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Because through my understanding.
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I can better give all of myself to her.
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Because I understand her on a deeper level.
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It’s not just a face value relationship. And when you have that, it’s.
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I did.
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Face value relationship. It’s really hard to want to.
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Week.
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Connect and communicate with somebody.
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Nope.
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I’ve learned that on a deeper level. That’s where I want the.
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In order to to get more understanding and.
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From her, and stuff like that.
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Okay.
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So using.
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The example of the compartmentalisation.
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And how we.
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In survival. We. This is something that we men do, you know, in departmentalizing the different areas of our life.
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Would it be so much.
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The.
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In every one of those areas.
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Your wife, also exist.
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In that place.
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So, whether being a church.
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Whether they be at work.
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Whether it be sports, I mean, you know.
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In, in.
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And this may be harder than what it’s seen. This is harder than the statement. The statement, the question I’m asking is a hard question, because it’s something that now it would take the life be involved.
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No one doesn’t necessarily mean that y’all gonna work at the same job. That’s not what I’m saying that she’s gonna enjoy the same sports or sports that you do.
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He’s kind of want to go to the places.
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Want to, but in essence.
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You are carrying her in your mind, in your departmentalization.
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That she exists in each and every one of those.
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Places.
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Well, would you.
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Think that in doing that that is Biblical.
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We wanted to do this.
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Form.
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Okay.
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Sorry I was taking.
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Well, I can help you out.
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When we and.
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I was taking some.
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Go ahead! Go ahead!
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I’m sorry I was taking some notes down.
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When you say Biblical, you mean like
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Before we go. They’re getting.
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In the aspect that.
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One in here.
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Where the word is talking about how our wife should be, you know, like.
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I I guess the best reference I have for that. I can’t pull any verses.
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Yes.
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What you talked about during merits where there’s like.
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Umbrella of how there’s order in our lives.
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And where it says, you know that there’s ***, and then there’s your wife, and then your children, and your job, and all that.
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And talking about that, I think that.
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From what I can relate to what you described to me, with umbrella.
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Is that I’m always gonna have that umbrella with me.
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So in each area of those lives.
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All of those things. You know your ***, your work or ***, your work.
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You know your children and your wife all kind of exist.
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On the same plane, no matter where you are, so.
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What I say is Biblical, I would say, yes, I just can’t find the verses off the top of my head.
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Okay, I would point to.
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To actually, before I even point you to something.
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And if you got some.
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I could speak up now, cause we’re done.
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As he was talking about the umbrella. I’m sitting okay, you know. His slip up. Got me thinking some men do.
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Make work.
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Their primary focus.
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Little G. ***, because they focus on if they get everything that they can get.
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We’re working hard, then they can have the life that they’re supposed to have supposed to end with this envision of how everything’s supposed to work. And that’s.
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Partly.
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What we have to strive to.
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I guess. Tear down, and then.
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Have the Biggie guide everything according to his vision, and make it aligned with our vision.
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Because his vision has to align.
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We’re all in disarray.
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Awesome.
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There!
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So to the.
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Question.
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Having your wife in each one of those compartmentalized sections.
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Of life.
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But not necessarily. You know they’re not at your job. They’re.
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You know, actively watching a game to at all times.
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Hey? Your mind **** is doing fine.
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Some type of Biblical reference to it. Is it Biblical? Well, I say it is, and we can look at it from a Genesis. Chapter 2, verse 24, perspective.
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And it says, the 2 shall become one flesh.
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Well, one flesh is more than the sexual bond.
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It is a familial.
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Family relationship. It is one of.
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Heart, body and soul. It is.
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I say, deeper than vowels, it is.
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One that is in preparation for eternal life. Of course this phrase again appears in Genesis, verse 24 talks about. They shall leave their mother shall leave his mother and father and be united to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. So in each one of the compartmentalizations that we do of our life, no matter what they may be. I just use those.
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Categories is what they are, therefore exists. Your wife.
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So when you think about the hard body and soul aspect of it, it is a symbolization of the union between husband and wife as one heart, one body, one soul, mutually.
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Giving to oneself, so is ones.
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In understanding this, then.
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Dictates. How we then.
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Need to know ourselves.
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So that we can know our wife.
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You’d say, Well, Paso, what do you mean by it? Well, you gotta know yourself in order to know your wife.
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You gotta know. For all this, you gotta know what your things are, so that you can then adequately.
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Get to understand, maybe from a perspective in which she sees.
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Because we’re one. I need to see her as she sees me.
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And also in the same sense.
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He needs to see me.
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DC. Herself, as I see her.
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But that’s not what the Bible tells the wife to do.
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Did. The the Bible doesn’t give those instructions to the wife, and we understand what what the Bible says to the wife.
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We then find that.
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Her instructions.
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Are completely different than ours.
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Like what instructions for the.
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Or not. The instructions for the loop, for the husband.
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Dr. Bob will go to feeding. Chapter 5.
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Want you to.
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Jump down to around. 1st 22.
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I’m gonna read it from
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I’m gonna grab it from the new living translation.
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And I won’t tell. There’s something I picked up.
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Long time ago, when I was trying to figure out how to be a better husband.
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Not, as the world puts it.
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But as as as *** has has mandated. How do I do this?
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Now it says, submit to your husband’s.
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Hey? In in verse 22, since.
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You know, submit to your husband’s for love, husband or wife, church.
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It’s crisis, you know. It’s a church semis Christ.
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So you will go to submit your husband’s and man, you know a wife hears that sometimes they go best they like. No.
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But they they don’t understand the submission.
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The submission portion is, as the Church submits itself, the Christ. So in order to understand what the wife’s role in the whole marital thing we have to see. How is the Church supposed to submit the Christ.
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Because at the church.
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As we are to be submitted unto Christ, she is to submit to us, and that’s a very profound thing, and we’ll get to that in a second write that down.
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Verse 25 is very interesting. It goes in and says, this means for husbands. This means you. You need to love your wife.
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As Christ loved the Church.
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And gave himself for her. So we are.
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To be willing.
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To give up, and many of us think that that means just lose our lives. Well.
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Yes, but there’s more to that.
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We’re to lose.
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Every aspect about who we want it to be for her.
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He gave Price think about what Price did for the church.
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And if we understand what price did for the Church, then we understand what we must do for our wives.
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The only reason that the Church is to submit the Christ is because of what Christ did for the Church.
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And every aspect of his life. He brought the church into it.
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We find the fact or ministry. He divided himself up the compartmentalization. There it is.
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I can. I can use that before the compartmentalization to kind of make them. This is a very loose.
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Way of doing it, but it’s it’s to bring some things in a perspective.
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When you think about, let’s compartmentalize the anointing of price. Well, that has been done. He gave some to be this and some to be Dad, some to be this, some to be that, and some to be this.
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Until he returns, until he brought himself up.
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Because, just like us, we can’t.
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Some reason we can’t hold it all in at the same time. So we got to break our lives and chunks.
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He said he said, Lovell.
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Matter of fact, give up your life for her.
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Not just Guy.
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But give up all of.
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All of your ask. This is gonna sound crazy man.
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Yeah, yeah, this is what all your aspir.
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Holly for her, for her.
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You know to be honest.
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And I’ll tell you my goal. When I joined the army.
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Was die in combat.
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That was one of them.
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I was going to get there, i, 1 of the glorious death.
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I.
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Also had went to selection.
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And was getting ready to go to the Q. Course.
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And.
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Turn it down because my wife didn’t want me to do it.
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I gave up.
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A portion of myself.
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It may be bitter for years.
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That I did it. I.
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I’ll tell you right now. I was not pleased with my.
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Because I gave up.
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An aspect of my life.
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For her. Now this is precise.
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Understand me now.
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But that is ultimately what *** is saying.
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You’re giving it up. Price gave up.
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So much.
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Well, the church.
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That.
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We could live.
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And he did this.
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In order that his Church.
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His bride.
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Would be made wholly.
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And clean.
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We see this in verse 26.
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And and and by and for what he gave up.
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He was able to have ush.
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In the cleansing of His Word.
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So that we may also.
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Be presented. Glorious.
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But on spot, staying without blemish.
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That we may be, as it says here, wholly without fault.
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And then he shifts something else.
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Possibly, Paul, talking to the Church in emphasis. He says, in the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies.
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For men does not love his wife.
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Actually a full man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself.
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Christ for the Church, with the care for her.
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And then he goes on, and he reiterates in verse 31, what is said in the Genesis chapter 2.
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It is.
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One other place. I want to go.
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Here.
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In in some of them.
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I wanted to bring up another one, but I want to say is.
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In a like fusion.
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Colossians, I want to say, is Colossian, real quick.
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Load this in here.
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Bring that up.
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So I ain’t got no notes. I’m doing this all top of my head.
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It is just basically saying, Why, I’ve submit to your husband.
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Some some scholars.
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Looked at the word. Submit.
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Been in doing their research. What they found is.
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The word submit means.
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The churches to submit to price.
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And we are to honor.
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Price, right.
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It’s very interesting. We are to bring honor to the name of the Lord, and not shame.
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So.
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I asked you again.
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You know
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How.
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Been.
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In that compartmentalization.
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How does that look in that compartmentalization.
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Of course I gave my example and use Biblical references.
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Of course I thought about this for years.
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Years I’ve thought about this.
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This question.
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This statement. I really thought about it.
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And the only way that I have seen, and I can speak for myself. I can’t speak for anyone else.
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Only way I’ve seen is.
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Is in seeing the example of Christ at a Church.
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And even though I have.
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Ambitions.
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If she cannot be.
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In that ambition.
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In that ambition cannot exist.
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Because we are one flesh.
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Right.
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That’s how I’ve.
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To a degree. I’ve dealt with compartmentalization.
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And ensuring that she also feels.
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That low, so regardless.
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If I’m going somewhere in ministry.
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Then she.
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Is going to be right there.
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And this is why it comes down so sometimes even the most simplest things. And I know Paul can testify to this.
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I hate being separated. And I say this.
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I don’t. I don’t say Oh, I hate no, I don’t mean I actually.
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We lows this.
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Is being separated from my wife.
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In any way so like they take. I see you, Paul, if they take me, and they say, Oh, man, go over there, sit with all the passes, and your wife, and sit right up during the ordination, almost lost my mind.
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I literally position my wife.
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Because I knew where I was gonna be sitting. I literally positioned her, but she was right behind me.
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So that anytime she could touch me.
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Because we are one flesh. Go ahead, Paul.
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So question on topic. But off topic relates.
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And how we.
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It relates because of how we operate right.
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In the aspect cause. I’ve been putting a lot of thought into this recently.
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And we briefly spoke about it.
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When we spoke about
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What we did at Marty, almost. If.
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Something comes up in like, because.
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My wife say whether she’d be physically unable because she has to watch the kids and stuff.
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Or things like that. If something comes up in, say, like our walk, where.
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You know our ambitions are there, and yes, our ambitions are for our life to be there.
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Should, or not being able to.
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Whether it be physical circumstance, illness, kids, whatever.
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Should that put those ambitions on hold, since we are one flesh.
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I believe. Yes, but I wanted some more input.
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On, on, that.
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I would say.
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No.
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But yes.
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We’re we’re.
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I gave an example of.
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I don’t want to say when it came to putting dishes aside.
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But a physical aspect of it. When I, when I gave the point about me going to selection.
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There have been times.
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Where I have had to do things.
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That my wife wasn’t physically present for.
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Okay, but are.
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But me and my wife was in it, but we were in a greens.
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Right.
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One.
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You see what I’m saying? That was not there was not disagreed.
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There was not.
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You know, I really, you know now it was never a case of I don’t want to be there. I really wanna be there. But.
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Circumstances made it. She couldn’t.
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But my passion.
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Was her passion and her passion.
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Was my passion, therefore it was our passion. You get what I’m saying.
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Right I do, and what I wanted to, I guess to on that.
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Is you use. So you’ve used 2 different words in your statements, and I’m just gaining clarity.
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Is, you use the word ambitions, and then you use the words I have to.
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And so, and generally your ambitions line up with the things that you have to do.
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Yes.
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We’re gonna put that. I know that just because I know you’re there.
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You’re not gonna do. You’re not gonna do anything that you have to do.
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That you don’t want to do because you’re a rebel. You’re not going to do it if you don’t want to do it.
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Right.
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But so let’s take half to like necessities out of the way, and let’s take like ambitions.
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So let’s say, traveling to a different state, to maybe speak.
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Before somebody or something like that.
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If it’s a want of mine, and my wife agrees that it is good.
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Should I still.
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Delay my turn well unknown. And now I’m thinking about where Jacob’s driving.
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So now I’m going back to that. I remember that study.
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I.
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Or the cart has to be driven, and he can’t keep and.
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Okay.
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Exactly.
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Thank you. So it’s all situational.
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That. That’s why that’s why.
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Yes, it. Yeah. That’s why I said, it’s both. Yes.
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And know.
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We just gotta it.
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It’s not something that.
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I wish I had the answer for it. You know what I’m saying like it’s both yet.
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Right. It’s situational, and it’s in an agreement with your wife.
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And that’s the biggest thing.
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Are you in agreement? Alright! Think about when I went to play.
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I was think about when I went there, and we could use my life.
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I don’t care about using my life.
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That’s why I think they would talk about on Kdf, like, what are y’all talking about, man? I’m an open book.
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Relevant, relevant transparency.
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Yeah, well, it depends. You know.
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Are you? So let’s let’s look at
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When I went to conclave right.
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It would have been so much better for me.
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To have my wife there. When I went to.
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I probably went ahead. The middle breakdown that I had.
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And even if I did.
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Who better to get me through it than her.
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Right. But we decided that me going there.
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Was worth.
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Being separated, even though we did not want to be.
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But we were in agreement. I did not.
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To go to Conc.
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But I want it to go.
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To conclave.
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And it was made that it was beneficial for us.
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For me to go to conclave.
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To gain the experience, to bring back to the household.
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Now we’re talking about the households.
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Which I did.
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Although apart.
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She was a part of conclave with me every step of the way right.
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So in the not having to.
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But wanting to.
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It, then says.
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You think of it?
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If your body, if you’re some reason, your brain wants your hand to slap your face.
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Or your let’s say your hand had a mind of his own. They want to slap your face. But your brain didn’t. They were in conflict.
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Schizophrenia. You know what I’m saying. Well, something like that.
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I don’t know.
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I.
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I the real question, I guess it would come in would be.
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Or the real instance will come in, would be where you are passionate.
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About a certain thing.
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And she is complete. Opposite.
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And that’s where conflicted the body would arise.
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One of you.
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To give up.
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Based on what the Bible says.
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The husband.
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For the benefit and the betterment of the family.
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Gives it up.
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If it will propel the family forward.
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Right now, probably saying, go.
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Stop doing the work of the Lord.
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But the church. No, that ain’t gonna happen.
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And the Bible never tells us that.
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But it is not anything that becomes a selfish ambition.
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Because that which he’s doing is.
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Well for the church.
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Well the brand, and so anything, therefore.
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That is for the bride.
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Even if the bride.
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Doesn’t line up with it.
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Of course this is the example.
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From Christ we are to lover, it’s price, love the Church, and gave them so for her. And so that which is to bring forth betterment for her. Now she rebels against that.
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That’s different. She is not.
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Following her part in the honoring.
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You know. The church, then, is not honoring price.
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And so, therefore she’s not. If it’s for the betterment.
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There’s there could be an argument that could be made on both ends.
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You know.
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But ultimately.
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This is not so much about.
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Being glued at the hip.
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Cause. I know plenty of couples that are good at the hill that profess that are.
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Still separate.
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As a as with oneness. Yeah, they’re walking hand in hand together, and they got.
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You know.
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Being on the man shirt and cling on that shirt, we won and.
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No, they still got the sand that they mixed at the wind, but it means absolutely nothing.
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Because ultimately.
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Instead of being.
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One is separate.
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But you could see people.
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For the betterment of the whole.
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Can go different places and do what needs to be done, that the the body may.
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May may be sustained as we see Christ.
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Is doing right now.
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As he is in heaven, and we are here. He is still working for those of us who are who are honoring him. We are one with him, as the Bible tells us, you know, as He is in heaven, and we are on earth. We are one with Him.
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As long as we’re honoring him.
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We know that He is loving us.
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And the great thing about it is. And here’s another thing.
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Even when.
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Would not be honored.
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Crazy.
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It’s crazy when I’m real.
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The wives is supposed to honor us.
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Right this, and I really would deep into it.
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As we loved them.
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And when we don’t love our lives, it’s not that we disrespect our disrespect.
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We bring this order to ourselves, and so we wonder why their honor fails.
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And it’s a lot, you know the the stipulations for men are when it comes through. Our marriage is is.
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Is graver and deeper.
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Then what it is for our wives.
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You know, a lot of them said, you know you find these teachers like, make sure you tell her you love her day and day. Okay, that is a good thing. I want you to do it.
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Tell it daily how much you love her. Yes, that is, that is good.
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You solve reassuring words.
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Every day in the evening write a love letter.
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Do this which involved doesn’t have to be literary. Blah blah blah.
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But it goes deeper than that. That’s that’s that’s surface level. That’s.
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That’s milk was meat.
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Christ literally.
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Left, heaven.
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Love, heaven.
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Put his breath. Think about that.
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Price left.
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Evan.
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So that we may be safe.
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And our instruction.
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Is.
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For her.
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To do as Christ did.
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For his bride.
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Let that sink in for a second.
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Private.
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Kind of mold that together.
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What did Christ do?
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Yeah. See that for us.
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He left heaven.
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Put himself in a mortal body that feels pain, that bleeds, that gets hungry, that gets tired, that sweats. He had.
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All those issues when he was in heaven, not relative safety. He was safety. Everybody ran up under him.
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Father got something. ***, only we get the Trinity right there. That’s.
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He left heaven.
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Came into a mortal body.
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On earth.
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For his bride.
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And then.
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So that his bride may be restored.
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He gave up everything.
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To include his life.
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Husbands.
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Love your wives. This is Christ, love.
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The church, and gave.
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Himself, up.
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For her? Does it.
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Now does the heaviness.
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Of that Scripture.
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Kind of sinking a little bit more when you think about it that way.
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Definitely.
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You know I.
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What did Christ give up.
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Both the Church.
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For his bride.
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And when you look at it.
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And you say, Wow.
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But to love her.
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Means also to love yourself.
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Another question.
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And this can be an unanswered question. I’ll continue on if it’s a lot of silence.
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Could our lack of understanding.
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Sometimes of our wife be a lack of love for self. Maybe we don’t like certain aspects about ourself.
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Then projects itself onto our spouses.
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Man. I was just talking to Aaron about this today.
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And I was talking about.
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Like so, and I’m a beat.
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Relevantly transparent.
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I was talking about trauma from my childhood.
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And the fact that I was adopted and.
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I really feel like, and I’ve spoken to you about this before.
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That it is difficult.
00:44:58.000 –> 00:45:01.000
For me to empathize with people.
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It was one of my greatest struggles in ministry.
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That I have gotten way better at in the last 8 years.
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But I was talking to him.
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About what stumbling blocks that has caused in my marriage.
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Where my wife is expecting a certain level.
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This isn’t sexual in the way I say this, but a certain level of intimacy.
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Right, certain level of self care for.
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Her, and I am unable to provide.
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Because that I still have healing.
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That I need to recover from.
00:45:37.000 –> 00:45:40.000
And the aspect that.
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If I don’t allow that healing to take place, then I’m truly only limiting.
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Myself, my relationship with my wife, and, 1st and foremost, my relationship with ***.
00:45:52.000 –> 00:45:58.000
And because *** is the healer, and if I stop that.
00:45:58.000 –> 00:46:04.000
Whatever ambition, or for whatever derives in my mind that it comes from. I was talking to him.
00:46:04.000 –> 00:46:08.000
About this gut, wrenching feeling. I used to get.
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When anybody would try it close to me.
00:46:10.000 –> 00:46:15.000
When they’re physically or emotionally. I used to have this gut wrenching, feeling.
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And I would have, and I have to swallow it.
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So hard just to be able to connect with somebody.
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And I’ve learned that the more that I know that *** loves me.
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In the same way.
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That I should be loving me.
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And I related it to a saying that I’ve heard before. If Christ died.
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On the cross for my sins. Who am I to not give my life to him?
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And it is the same way that I think about it.
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If Price or *** have, let me in such a way.
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Who am I to not love myself in the same manner.
00:46:56.000 –> 00:47:02.000
And I’ve noticed that as I’ve been working through this and understanding my hewing.
00:47:02.000 –> 00:47:04.000
Whatever happened to me.
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I mean, you’ve seen, just from a couple of months ago, the relationship that I’ve had with people in my life to now.
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That not that the relationship status has changed, but my outlook, in my viewpoint on it, is less destructive.
00:47:20.000 –> 00:47:21.000
Please.
00:47:21.000 –> 00:47:23.000
And now I’m able to actually focus the relationships.
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*** has placed in my life, not the ones that.
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I forced into my life.
00:47:30.000 –> 00:47:31.000
Hmm.
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And.
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That’s where me and we’re talking about on our 2 and a half hour drive today. So.
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Nice. I mean, there’s there’s.
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There’s a lot of.
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Relevant.
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What?
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There’s there’s relevancy in what you’re saying, you know.
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You know. There, there’s there’s I love to see.
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Because.
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How we feel about ourselves.
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That very well affect how we feel about our wild. And when I say that is is in our interactions with them.
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You know you, you.
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Unfortunately.
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Because of that area of compartmentalization.
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Remember.
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Ultimately the Bible tells us.
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And here’s the here’s the kicker, whether you want it to be or not.
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Your wife exists at every single one of those compartment areas of your life.
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So when you say, should we do that.
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Well you should. But even if you don’t think you are.
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You do. The Bible clearly tells us that you become one flesh.
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And if one fresh.
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What you see of self.
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Projects in those individual areas.
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And it could hurt.
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Again, intimacy is not all sexual.
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It could hurt the very intimate relationship.
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Junior, wine.
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Price has an intimate relationship.
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With his bride, the church.
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As He is in us, and we are in Him.
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He has a intimate relationship.
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If Christ did not view Himself.
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As *** had made him to be.
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Then I doubt we would be stayed.
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He would not have given himself.
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They would not have came down.
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So we have to have.
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An understanding of who we are.
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And of our viewpoint, of ourselves.
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That we may better be able to see how our wives see us.
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Oh, man!
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So we can better see how they see us.
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Because what they see is what we’re projecting and what we’re projecting may not always be what we believe.
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However, when we can.
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Have a relevant.
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View of who we are.
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We can definitely see how they see us.
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And in turn.
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It affects how we see them.
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Again. Their job is to honor. I said. Honor.
00:51:02.000 –> 00:51:04.000
Basically paid.
00:51:04.000 –> 00:51:07.000
Thank you for bringing home food.
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Thank you, for, you know. Thank you for.
00:51:10.000 –> 00:51:14.000
Nowhere does it tell wives to love your husband.
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That’s all my wife supposed to love me. You spoke to me, that’s it.
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The honor. That’s it. The audit on me washing clothes on and on me and cooking. You’ve done another.
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That’s not on honor is just.
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Price.
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And where you go. I go.
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Will you lead? I follow.
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That’s honor.
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Price doesn’t require to do anything extra.
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Then just simply follow him. Do what he does.
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Fall asleep.
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We’re gonna go state. Okay, that’s where we’re going.
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What Jesus told me to move him. Well, guess what I’m gonna honor. My ***! I’m honored, my lord, and I’m going now.
00:52:00.000 –> 00:52:04.000
Noah told me. We don’t do this sorry baby.
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Let’s say I can follow ***.
00:52:06.000 –> 00:52:13.000
I can follow Christ because Christ knows where he’s going. He knows when he’s doing, and I know that every.
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Thing that he’s doing for me. He’s doing unselfishly.
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He’s doing unselfishly.
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The.
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And go hurt me.
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So I’m safe in honoring Price.
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Think about it. The Brad of Christ is safe in bringing him up.
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And following in listening to His word, in obeying what he says.
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Is their same. P. Then.
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In Austin’s husbands.
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For our wives.
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Are they sheltered under the caring and.
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Prolong of them has been.
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Do they have good sense of security.
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That the love of Christ brings.
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Through the husband.
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See, husband loved your wife, and Christ loved the Church means that you are now not only this security.
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The Protector. But you’re also.
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The one who’s leading and right in proper places.
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And their job is to simply, Are you.
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That’s it.
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When I realized that man I changed my marriage.
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Has it changed me?
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I can be closer to my wife.
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Because I’m close to myself.
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Because my sense now involves her.
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That’s before everything.
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Every.
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Thing.
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Everything.
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That’s before this is.
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***. The only thing that sits above that.
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*** is the only thing that sits above that.
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Now she is not my ***!
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So that’s just above it.
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If ***.
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Marriage.
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Our Union.
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Thin, my children.
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And then everything else, as it falls in line.
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She comes before way at all.
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It’s crazy that way.
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But that is how Christ loved the Church.
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It’s followed his bride.
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That was my recollection.
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And of course.
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Which is amusing, is, of course, one like Hebrews, 13 and 4.
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In a sequence. 13 and 4. I’m gonna use the the a clause.
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I would definitely read the B clause 2.
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But the a clause!
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A clause is the 1st half of the verse, that’s all it is, but it is broken down, meaning able to understand it. If you again. We segment things. We break things down into segments, into parts.
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The 1st part of reverse, the second part of the burst. Sometimes you have a 3rd part of.
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And each one of them have a pacific meaning that correlates with each other.
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It’s a helpful way to study.
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Give honor to marriage.
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And remain faithful to one another.
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Well, how is that honor given? Well for men.
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Be fine right back up there, and any fusion shop to find.
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Love your wife.
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Live on your husbands.
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Though that that has.
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Absolutely.
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It doesn’t go with.
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What the world says.
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I like that amplified here.
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Have number 5 says this.
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Up for us, and I’m harping on us, because really there’s really more
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For us to do to them.
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Date the highest good for her.
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And surround. We’re carrying unselfish love.
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Remain morally obligated.
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Too low.
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The labs.
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Being a sense of their own bodies.
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Is what it says.
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1st one. I no one ever hated his own body, but it’s.
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Steady nurse, and protects and chairs it just as Christ does the Church, because we are members.
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Parts of his body.
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It says, this mystery in verse 32. This mystery of 2 becoming one is great, but I am speaking with reference to the relationship of price, and the church.
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However, each man among you, without aception is to love his wife as his very own self, with behavior worthy of respect and esteem, always seeking the best.
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For her with an attitude of loving kindness.
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And the wife must.
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See it.
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He respects and delights in her husband, that she notices him, and prefers him, and treats him with loving concerns.
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Perishing him, honoring him and holding him dear again.
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Ain’t no honor if we don’t give the love.
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In service, the wipers to honor the husband.
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Following out the.
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When you lead, I follow.
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Nowhere you go!
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Whatever you’re doing, don’t do it without me. We sing the song.
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Our love should be for our so much that they sing a song to us of husband, no matter where you’re going. I’m going there with you.
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If you pack up and move tomorrow, I’m packing up and move in tomorrow, because.
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Because, without exception, your love for me.
00:59:32.000 –> 00:59:43.000
Is worthy of that respect is worthy of that esteem is, is worthy, because you seek consistently the best for me.
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This is the way I speak. I’m gonna speak in in essence of a wife. Right now you speak it. You look for the best for me in.
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Kindness and love.
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And I see it.
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I respected.
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I delight in it.
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I prefer you.
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And so of that.
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You receive honor.
01:00:16.000 –> 01:00:18.000
You receive her whole new.
01:00:18.000 –> 01:00:39.000
You receive a loving concern.
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We have the foot.
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I can go. Do all. Go ahead.
01:00:41.000 –> 01:00:44.000
4 years Terry and I were together.
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I just had this since.
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Instinctive guard up all the time like she finally caught my elbow. One time you nudged.
01:00:53.000 –> 01:00:58.000
Nudge me with you, but every time I get close to like no.
01:00:58.000 –> 01:01:02.000
I didn’t, and this was probably first.st
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I’d say, probably 1st almost 5 years we were together. It’s just I didn’t want. Let nobody get close to me.
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Working on that. We.
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Once she’s allowed me to get cost other people, just because it’s it’s it’s something that’s been working on.
01:01:26.000 –> 01:01:34.000
Of compassion is just. My empathy has had a lot of work over the years.
01:01:34.000 –> 01:01:37.000
One day I pray.
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That the true level of price overtakes you.
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Fully.
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I pray, and and I, and I say this with.
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The utmost necessarily.
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But 1st I need you to start to speak about yourself in a different way.
01:02:01.000 –> 01:02:04.000
As in that person.
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Gone, completely dead.
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That that man you speak of.
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Now I’m working on it.
01:02:12.000 –> 01:02:15.000
I have changed.
01:02:15.000 –> 01:02:18.000
I have the love of Christ.
01:02:18.000 –> 01:02:20.000
I am tolerant of people.
01:02:20.000 –> 01:02:28.000
Not only tolerant of people. I love people, I have a heart for people, I have a heart for their well being. I want to be around them.
01:02:28.000 –> 01:02:34.000
When you change your vocabulary, you will change the way you are.
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Brother, I am not speaking this from a place of ignorance.
01:02:38.000 –> 01:02:40.000
One day as Paul.
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I am not speaking this from a place of ignorance.
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And speaking of place, I’ve been there done. Net got the bag of chips, and I got the award.
01:02:49.000 –> 01:02:51.000
For most.
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Undesirable person to be around.
01:02:55.000 –> 01:03:01.000
Or the most, the person who most undesired to be around people.
01:03:01.000 –> 01:03:05.000
But as soon as the full level of price.
01:03:05.000 –> 01:03:14.000
Not that you don’t have it, but I’m talking about that. You come to truly understand it and walk in it.
01:03:14.000 –> 01:03:16.000
I prayed it, I can.
01:03:16.000 –> 01:03:19.000
Be that example, and show it to you as.
01:03:19.000 –> 01:03:23.000
A man of *** is showing it to me.
01:03:23.000 –> 01:03:29.000
Where you don’t have to be on Bar.
01:03:29.000 –> 01:03:35.000
24, 7, 365 days.
01:03:35.000 –> 01:03:37.000
Every moment that.
01:03:37.000 –> 01:03:38.000
You can have that.
01:03:38.000 –> 01:03:40.000
Yeah, it gets tiring.
01:03:40.000 –> 01:03:43.000
That you can have that solemn.
01:03:43.000 –> 01:03:47.000
But the 1st thing I would tell you that you need to do, and here my instructions.
01:03:47.000 –> 01:03:51.000
You need to. You need to change the vocabulary.
01:03:51.000 –> 01:03:57.000
We need to change the way you speak about yourself.
01:03:57.000 –> 01:03:59.000
I I’m gonna use a Scripture that they used on me.
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Second Corinthians, 5 and 17.
01:04:07.000 –> 01:04:09.000
Same career against 5 to 17.
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I I truly believe this.
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I don’t say these things because I don’t believe I.
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I wholeheartedly believe this.
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And I’m going to read it from the living. I fell in love lately, Paul.
01:04:23.000 –> 01:04:30.000
With a new living translation. Don’t ask me why I just I don’t know. Right now. I’m in a season of the new living translation.
01:04:30.000 –> 01:04:35.000
I was wondering about that. I’ve heard you say it a couple times already, and I’m like, really.
01:04:35.000 –> 01:04:43.000
Yeah, I don’t know why, man, I just fell in love, you know. Sometimes I grab a version to Bible. It just hits me, man.
01:04:43.000 –> 01:04:45.000
Just hits differently.
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Just hit it differently.
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There’s a funding.
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Go ahead!
01:04:49.000 –> 01:04:54.000
There’s a funny video on Facebook, where it talks about the different versions of the Bible.
01:04:54.000 –> 01:04:59.000
And then the different type of churchgoers that they are related to what version they read.
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Yeah.
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So I relate it to like. Oh, your goals are a different season in your life.
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Yeah. But I just I mean, it just hits differently right now in this season of my life.
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Second is 5, 17.
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Now in the new King James I can, I can say a verbatim. Therefore any man in Christ is a new creation. All things have passed away. Behold, all things have been made new, right.
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Committed to memory in a new new king, James.
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This is what it says in the living.
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This means.
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And then you know that that piques my curiosity. Well, this what.
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And y’all know me when something’s my curiosity. I gotta go back a couple versus and read.
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So I go back.
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And I go up to verse 11.
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Man of ***, I’m telling you. Listen! It is.
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Let this speak to you. Wait!
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Oh, for some reason I want to go back to season. He got me preaching. Now I’m gonna go back to verse 6. I want to speak this into your life, because I believe that in speaking this into your life, if you start to think this way, you will see the change.
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That the old man is gone. We are confident in verse 6. It says so. We are confident that even though.
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We know that as long as we live in these bodies we are not at home with the Lord, for we live by believing and not seeing. Yes, we are fully confident that we would rather be away from these earthly bodies, but then we will be at home with the Lord. So, whether we are here in this body or this body, our goal is to please him.
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For we must all stand before Christ. We will each receive whatever we deserve for the good of the evil that we have done in this earthly verse 11. We’re getting closer to the, to the emphasis statement because we understand our fearful responsibilities of the Lord. We work hard to persuade others.
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*** knows we are sincere, and I hope you know this too.
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We are commending ourselves to you again. Know we are giving you a reason to be proud of us.
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So you can answer those who brag about having a spectacular.
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Or ministry, rather than having a sincere heart, I should have put that in the chat in inside of the other one.
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If it seems we are crazy to bring.
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40 ***, and if we are in our right minds, it is for your benefit, either way controls us.
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Listen to that.
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Christ. Love is the one that controls you, since we believe that Christ, for all, we also believe that we have all died who.
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Our old self.
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And this is where speaking.
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In the present.
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Changing vocabulary. Allow that man.
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Was to stay dead.
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Well, he died in verse 15, he says, well, he died for everyone, so that.
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Hopefully, Steve. His new life will no longer live for themselves. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died and was risen.
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So we have stopped alluding.
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I’m sorry evaluating others from a human point of view.
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At one time we thought price merely. We. We thought of price merely from a human point of view. How different we know him now!
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This means that anyone.
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Who belongs to Christ.
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Has become a new person.
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The whole life is gone.
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A new life has begun.
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And all life is gone.
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A new life has begun.
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It may seem contradictory.
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Let’s stop saying.
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Then you’re adding to basically what happened.
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Self reflection from Sunday. This is this, is, this is just.
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Wow, nuts.
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That’s all I could say, just adding to what got me thinking about Sunday.
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And imagine.
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Where this will take your 1st ministry.
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Your 1st ministry, your 1st ministry. Remember the company statement. It’s about.
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The family about. So that starts with the wife.
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It’s about you, and that starts with the wife.
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If you can start saying.
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What *** says about you. Imagine what you didn’t start saying about your wife.
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And in return how she will start saying about you.
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Imagine I’m not speaking from a place of ignorance. Here, brother.
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Definitely not speaking from a place of ignorance.
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You know I’m telling you, man, when you just start.
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When you start.
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Believing it.
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How Price wants you to believe speaking about yourself.
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In the manner in which.
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Crisis book about 2.
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You know.
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You bring so much.
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Power to your marriage.
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How how do? How.
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How do you become a powerful dynamic couple.
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When you value yourself.
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Well, not prideful this is, I’m not. This is not a sense of pride. A lot of people have really bad self image.
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I can’t do that. Many people who are puffed up and travel. They hate.
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They hate themselves.
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So they try to make others love them.
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No, it’s not a profile that that’s that’s not. That’s not a lovely person.
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Most profitably. You ever noticed really really powerful person they they when you, when you get down to the nit, they hate themselves.
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They don’t like where they look, so they always trying to.
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Puff themselves up to be greater than somebody else, somebody who loves themselves. I don’t care what you look at me as long as I’m confident, and how I have them.
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With me. I love me.
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Flows here and there. No, I know that, but.
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When I wake up in the morning I look at myself, and I say.
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You going to even better than you did yesterday?
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The mistakes yesterday gone can’t do nothing about it. Can’t change it. But, man, you could do so much better.
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And I go look at my Brad.
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Let’s see.
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In my eyes there’s perfection.
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Because in the future, chapter 5, what it’s talking about.
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Cleansing your wife right.
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When it when it talks about making her.
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Sanctifying her.
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You know, presenting her.
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Back to you.
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Alright, and I’m I’m gonna grab this from a new King James.
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Marie, this section off from King James, because I know of it better.
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As the word speak.
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That’s the version. I learned this one in.
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Verse 27, chapter 5, verse 27.
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That he may present her to himself.
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A glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle.
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Or any such thing, but that she should be wholly without blemish.
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I can’t even realize. Man, we’re supposed to present our lives to ourselves.
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We’re supposed to literally form our wives.
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Make them.
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Into something.
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Oh, wait! But guys that don’t mean change.
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No, no, no, no, that means that in here.
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And through us, we are to make them.
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Perfect in every aspect.
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Without spot, without blemish, without staying, when I see her like, when you see a wife like that man.
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Changes everything in how you approach her.
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Now I’m looking at myself as a product of Christ.
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So when I see myself.
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No, I’m not perfect.
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But if I can see Christ.
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Emulating from me.
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Now, what do I see?
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And so, if I treat myself right.
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Because I doing the things of Christ, because I know I belong to Him.
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Then I know that how I’m treating my wife is.
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Is, is, is worthy.
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Of honor and respect from her.
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That each one of us be particular in his.
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Love was on. Wife is himself.
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And as the wife sees it.
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You know, give respect.
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Machines both to love you.
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I told somebody that one time, and they they they kind of scolded me.
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So y’all looking for your wives that love you and the Bible. Don’t tell your wife to love.
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Let’s say I’ve never been asked to come back and speak in that church again.
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Nope.
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Bob will know what tells a wife to love a husband.
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Says on, and that honors.
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Is earn, husband.
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Our mandate to our lives so much deeper.
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Than what we learned.
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In the world.
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Is not equal.
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In any aspect.
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We have a greater mandate.
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To them.
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As I see in the Bible, and they do to us.
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That’s how I.
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Get back to the point of.
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Cherishing a spouse.
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I’m gonna leave it there.
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I kind of went into a whole study with it, but I wanted to have more of a discussion.
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I am.
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Left there.
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Closing last comments.
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Want to say, Pasadena. Stupid! I all agree with you.
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The.
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Let me know!
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We know men’s meeting will get me to open up.
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Brother, we don’t compel each other for it.
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Will.
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I’m not here to.
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Ask Paul.
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I’m here to push.
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Not here. Just Pampa.
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I hate to say you want to pick one pampering and just.
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Both. Will, you know you have to go to another place? I’m not gonna do it.
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So.
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There’s plenty of places around here, too.
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It is always okay.
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Give us, many.
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Now pray for you.
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For somebody.
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I’m gonna get art some hard. I need you to check. We want we want to see relevant.
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Price, like change, man.
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We’re mandated to do.
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Best leaders in this church.
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We are supposed to persuade one another.
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Grow deeper. I just read it.
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You know we’re supposed to one another.
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We’re we’re supposed to.
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We are ambassadors.
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We should be be.
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Persuading each other.
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We’re confidence.
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To grow.
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Good.
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Closer to Christ.
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Second, credit is 5, 11.
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Because we understand our fearful responsibility to the Lord.
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We work hard to persuade.
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Others.
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Put that in the chat for you. Grab that right.
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Our mandate. That’s our job.
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Not the world. You. You got that right.
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Persons.
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Let me pull it from a.
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Oh, the good version!
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Knowing, therefore, the tear the Lord, we persuade men.
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Denmark. What other one? I ref.
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From a bunch of different versions. I love it, since we know the Lord, and understand the importance of obedience and worship, we persuade people to be reconciled to him.
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What I love. Man.
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I’m glad you opened it up.
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Open up to your brothers. It tells us the Bible tells us to confess.
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That’s our fault to one another.
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And then it also tells us, we who are spiritual.
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Restore.
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A brother was falling.
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And so, as you confess your fault, we who will serve you.
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Restore you.
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Through His Word.
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Because we understand the importance of obedience.
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And worship to the Lord our ***.
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Alright, that’s just I’m done, and I said I wasn’t going preach again.
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And I did say I want to preach again, I said in my mind.
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But you know my brother spoken.
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I I started.
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Come on any last things, any last things.
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We go, you know. Finish this all out.
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Fall any closing comments. Ministers.
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Paul passed the in training. Paul.
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Elder in training, Paul.
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Washington.
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No, I just
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Oh, that’s what it was!
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So when you’re speaking about presenting, I presenting without blemish right.
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I I really was thinking about that. And like.
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Now, if we aren’t really positioning ourselves correctly.
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And the way that is contextual to the verses that you brought up.
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Is so easy to get aggravated.
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Or and all you can focus on with your spouse is the things that aggravate.
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And then, if I was truly positioning myself correctly.
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I would see the overwhelming.
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Love that I have for her, which truly is without blemish.
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And I would be able to present.
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Or I would be able to see her in that light.
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Over, the.
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You know the the Ver the light of her being.
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You know whether it’s aggravation or.
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You see where they’re lacking, or things of that nature.
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Because out of price, love for us, he’s able to present us without.
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I miss through his Grace.
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And what He did for us on the cross.
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And we should be able to view our same way that *** presented our wives to us and gave them to us.
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And we cleave to them. And so that, being without blemish.
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That is a position of how *** views them as well as *** views us in, how we all.
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Stand on one accord.
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Elderly as a saying that one plus one equals one.
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And it’s true, for in the church as well, the household.
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Where we should all be standing together.
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Yard.
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And there should be no contention between.
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Us and our spouses. In that aspect.
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Even though we might get angry in our flesh, or something of that nature.
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We’re able to come back and view them.
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As *** intended us to view them.
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That was my last stop.
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Oh, praise ***!
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You’re giving me a new book to do a listen to while on their work.
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Because I just got done going through all asylum. And now you got directed me towards going into.
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Listening in the fall.
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Homework.
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Yes, yes.
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I mean.
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I could. I could stay, and Paul can tell you I could stay on this subject for a long time.
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This was a big passion when it come. This is a big passion when it comes to me when it comes to brothers.
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I I used to phrase it, being your rightful place.
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And I had to learn to be careful how I phrased it, because.
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It would give me a false sense of.
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Of lording over their wives. And that’s not what this means.
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No way does. It means.
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Lording over you are literally subject to her.
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You know, in her submission to you, you’re subject to your wife like it is crazy.
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We would think about it. But I want to go even.
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Deeper with you all.
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And definitely.
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Because of what have on, you know, as we stand as leaders in the church.
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It is imperative.
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That you walk lockstep with your wife.
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You know what I’m saying. You won’t miss.
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You know, when it comes to like elevation, and things like that.
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The wife is on board with you.
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And she has to know.
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That even though you know so what are they saying? That everywhere you go.
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He goes also.
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So when I became a pastor they didn’t have to lay hands on my wife and consecrate my wife as a pastor.
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Why? Because of the simple fact that I was consecrated.
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He’s now past.
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That doesn’t mean she’d go to walk in in the role of a shepherd like she’s not. She’s not a shepherd.
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He loves on people. She’s a mother to some.
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People sort of.
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But ultimately everything I have is.
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The anointing that’s on me is hard, you know. It’s right there, you know. So.
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There’s nobody with one flesh. I became a pastor. Guess what.
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She is. I don’t care what any man says.
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Because that’s me. If you speak ill about her, you speak ill about me.
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You cannot say nothing about her that is not about me. Oh, well, I was always thinking about your wife. No, brother, you were speaking about me.
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Thing you say about her, because we are one.
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So you know that. And we all understood. Oh, my ***, Paul, I think this should be able to help you also.
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Any place, you go higher in ***.
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Your wife doesn’t have to be worried about not being there.
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If you 2 are truly one flesh.
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Your apostleship means her apostleship.
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Your elevation means her elevation.
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Now she may have gifted, and talents and other things in which *** is going to bestow on her, that she may edify the body which is you.
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What she gets is yours.
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They lower than that? Yes.
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Sometimes progress in the body. On one side is a little bit slow.
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Or takes more time, and I’m talking about myself. Life was already.
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Ordering the things before I missed the plate.
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That’s a different story for a different time. And that’s what I tell.
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I don’t know when to take a step back that your husband may propel into the position that he’s supposed to be in again. That’s for the wives to learn.
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Not for us to tell them how to do.
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It takes a wife to tell other wives how that works.
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Because my wife had to take a step back.
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So that I may move forward.
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And we say it all, you know. When you hear it you hear it in prayer. If you go to some of the churches, I go to.
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Decrease, so that you may increase.
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Sometimes. Oh, wow! I’d have to take a step back, man, and glory be to ***! Put old wives.
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Who take that step back, you know.
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Oh, and it’s Scripture.
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It’s virtual.
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You go to John, chapter 3, verse 30.
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35, y’all know.
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I don’t speak, I’d be trying my best not to speak nothing that they found. That ain’t Scripture.
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And you go to John. Chapter 3.
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You find John the Bell, as he’s talking about some.
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Go down, around.
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So so John the Baptist exalts Christ, is the title that the new king gives it.
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And and then, and it says in verse 25, it says, then there was.
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There are roles a dispute between some of John’s disciples and the Jews about purification, and they came to John and said to him, Rabbi.
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Who was with you is beyond the Jordan to whom you have testified. He’s baptizing all, and all are coming to him. And John said.
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A man can receive nothing unless it has been given to him from heaven.
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You yourselves bear me that, I said. I am not the Christ, but I have been before him.
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He who has the.
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Is the broad groom.
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But the friend of the bridegroom who stays and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom’s voice.
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Therefore this joy.
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Oh, mine is fulfilled! Verse 30. Here it is.
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He must increase. But I must decrease.
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My wife had to.
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Step back.
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The back is step forward.
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Into what we.
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Oh, we’re gonna do!
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But that’s only something a wife can teach another wife.
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If it was a come from us it would even sound right.
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But know this.
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And that’s stepping back, she propels you forward.
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But don’t go. Tell your wife. Now step back.
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But you can confer, and her stepping back.
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Reassure her.
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And everywhere you go.
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She gonna be right down.
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Every mountain you would every mountain and heal you, climb over.
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Jacobi right now.
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Every every time you are lifted up she is lifted right there with you.
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There is no place that you will go, that she will not.
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Were the ready or not?
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If we.
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Go.
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But my name on it don’t. Your your 1st name ain’t got to be on it. Our name is on.
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I took you from your mother and your father.
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You are mine, I am yours. We are one.
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That’s the best way I know to explain.
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When I guess what? Because I’m Bishop.
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Pete Bishop, you get what I’m saying like, yes, we’re not gonna call Lady Ivy Bishop.
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Right. I get that. But you have to understand.
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Oh, you messed up now I’m gonna do it.
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No, don’t! Don’t do that, man.
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But I mean you get what I’m saying right.
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Despite them.
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This does give the different to him.
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Yes, sir.
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Yeah. Guess what. When when I go to sit.
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I guarantee you an apostle.
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When apostle power.
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Does the consecration for Bishop.
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I’m gonna and I want you to notice something.
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They will never separate us.
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Watch it. They will never.
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When Apostle Paul, when he, when he, when he, when he went from Bishop elect to Bishop.
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Guess? What?
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At the time Pastor Tanya.
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Was sitting right next to him.
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When he went up under the sheet, went up onto.
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No matter where he has gone.
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In his walk in ministry. As long as you’ve been married to her she has been right there with him.
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The accolade may not say it like right there. Her name on it right.
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But see the last name, how that searched.
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That’s Ida’s name.
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She gave up a father’s name for mine.
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We are one.
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And we create that name together.
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So, no matter where I go.
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She’s right there.
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No matter what certificates or whatever I get.
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Degrees, or whatever they’re hers.
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He? But she had to decrease.
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That I can move forward.
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Because at 1st she was the spiritual head of the house, because I was disobedient.
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But when I started getting in line and started walking she had to step.
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Back that I can move forward.
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And she was so glad and happy.
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Oh! It took a second.
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I said, you know.
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Took a second.
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Alright! I don’t know.
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I think we got enough to talk about.
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And this recording, I guess.
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Will get sent out.
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This is, this is a go.
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It’s worked.
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But think about that, Ken.
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This fine time.
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Really reflect on it.
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But today.
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Change of vocabulary.
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You have the love of Christ in you.
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You can let it go.
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That others may see.
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There is loving kindness and gentleness and meekness.
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That surround you.
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You can take comfort in the safety of the wings of the Lord.
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Done good. You gotta fight no more. Bounce.
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Not yours to fight anything.
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I said, blessed is those who suffer for his namesake.
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So there’s blessings in that. Suffer.
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To fight for.
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